are you happy with your life, your situation, your plan? Your past? Tell me about it.
I think happy people are completely content with their past, even if there are some 'not so good' things back there. Individually and collectively, our lives now are a culmination of all the choices we've made and experiences we've had...given that, I'd do it all again knowing I'd be in this spot at my age.
Chaos Reigns Get back from me demon, or be exorcised.
I've often wondered if there was a way to go back in time an change some of the things I did wrong could I. But then again maybe I'd just make more of a mistake than the ones I did. If you could make one change in your life how might it affect you or someone else then & now.
Final answer: I'm happy with the life I've had and would not want to do again for any amount of money.
Nothing belongs to us even the air we inhale must be exhaled.
Happy isn't a static thing to me so I don't really know how to answer this. Sometimes I'm happy, sometimes Im not. Im not happy about the overall state of my life, but there are aspects I enjoy. So.. To answer, dunno.
I've often thought about and been asked if I'd change falling an fracturing my back the answer NO. I wouldn't change what happened cause I got to be there when my 3 grandkids were born, watch them take 1st steps, 1st words, watch them learn & grow.
Nothing belongs to us even the air we inhale must be exhaled.
Post by Lord Cornelius on Mar 12, 2020 11:53:38 GMT -8
I've been going through shit pretty hardcore between my relationship / band breakup/ stress with a bunch of other shit.
I think my wife & I finally found a decent therapist/counselor though. I've had days lately where I just feel like my life is in a complete tail spin because of some of our fights and issues with other people. I've cried on the way to work multiple times or yelled in anger at the sky basically just feeling pretty hopeless/upset with how things have been. I've never felt like i actually needed therapy this bad before, or even at all before.
Good news is I actually feel a cathartic release with this therapist talking shit out, and have seen progress in how we are handling each other / our lives. I drove to work happy today listening to some new music ideas and feeling excited about life even with this virus shit going on. It's going to be a journey though. We have to keep going and reinforcing the change.
I've been going through shit pretty hardcore between my relationship / band breakup/ stress with a bunch of other shit.
I think my wife & I finally found a decent therapist/counselor though. I've had days lately where I just feel like my life is in a complete tail spin because of some of our fights and issues with other people. I've cried on the way to work multiple times or yelled in anger at the sky basically just feeling pretty hopeless/upset with how things have been. I've never felt like i actually needed therapy this bad before, or even at all before.
Good news is I actually feel a cathartic release with this therapist talking shit out, and have seen progress in how we are handling each other / our lives. I drove to work happy today listening to some new music ideas and feeling excited about life even with this virus shit going on. It's going to be a journey though. We have to keep going and reinforcing the change.
Sorry but also awesome my dude.
Hopefully everything is back on track with your relationship.
Fuck your band though, time to go with the Lord Cornelius Project and just do synth music from here on out.
I've been going through shit pretty hardcore between my relationship / band breakup/ stress with a bunch of other shit.
I think my wife & I finally found a decent therapist/counselor though. I've had days lately where I just feel like my life is in a complete tail spin because of some of our fights and issues with other people. I've cried on the way to work multiple times or yelled in anger at the sky basically just feeling pretty hopeless/upset with how things have been. I've never felt like i actually needed therapy this bad before, or even at all before.
Good news is I actually feel a cathartic release with this therapist talking shit out, and have seen progress in how we are handling each other / our lives. I drove to work happy today listening to some new music ideas and feeling excited about life even with this virus shit going on. It's going to be a journey though. We have to keep going and reinforcing the change.
The right therapist can make all of the difference. I switched and I have not looked back. I remember having days like you describe and I would just suppress it until it was overwhelming. Glad you are getting the help you need and that you see the positive aspects of life. Now go out and put out an acoustic album about sunshine and flowers!
