Post by Cityofchamps on May 10, 2022 14:58:44 GMT -8
Just got a call from my dad this morning that they found my grandfather in his apartment unresponsive and had gone to the bathroom all over the kitchen. Already was having trouble with Alzheimer's and movement issues with his back getting hunched. He hadn't been eating well over the past week and likely won't be able to go back to his apartment and will need assisted living if he gets out of the hospital. He is 92 years old. My Dad's sister will be heading over to the hospital in the morning to check on him and she is getting updates. From the way it sounds, he won't be with us much longer.
Just lost my grandmother (his wife) last year. My mom's mom passed away 2 years ago, and my mom's dad got killed in a car crash in 2009.
This just sucks right now. Can't really say it any other way than that. More than anything I feel bad for my dad and his sister especially. My Aunt just lost her husband last year as well just a few months after losing her mom.
"Too often, we enjoy the comfort of opinion without the discomfort of thought." - JFK
"First Thoughts are the everyday thoughts. Everyone has those. Second Thoughts are the thoughts you think about the way you think. People who enjoy thinking have those. Third Thoughts are thoughts that watch the world and think all by themselves. They’re rare, and often troublesome."
Grandparents have a special place in a lot of people's lives, a constant presence of family ties and tradition. They are the link to generations past and present. Mine were always around and made me, my siblings and cousins feel safe, welcomed and loved. Losing them is like having a part of ourselves go missing. Treasure the good times and sadness will become fond memories.
My younger son has a lot of problems I have addressed in here. But he cared for both my parents before the passed. It took quite a toll on him. But I will be forever grateful for the tender and loving way he cared for them.
Sorry for your loss. I lost both of my paternal grandparents in the span of a year in 2020-2021, difficult times because how isolated people were from their family members. I hope you got to visit your grandfather after the pandemic started to weaken.
Sorry for your loss. I lost both of my paternal grandparents in the span of a year in 2020-2021, difficult times because how isolated people were from their family members. I hope you got to visit your grandfather after the pandemic started to weaken.
Yea, we went down there a couple of times over the past year and were able to spend some time with him.
"Too often, we enjoy the comfort of opinion without the discomfort of thought." - JFK
"First Thoughts are the everyday thoughts. Everyone has those. Second Thoughts are the thoughts you think about the way you think. People who enjoy thinking have those. Third Thoughts are thoughts that watch the world and think all by themselves. They’re rare, and often troublesome."
- Terry Pratchett, A Hat Full of Sky
snerb Where are we going, and why am I in a hand basket?
Sorry to hear of your loss. It is hard to lose a grandparent. I lost my last in 2011. Fortunately she was able to meet both of my kids.
That's what I very happy about, my son knew and had a great relationship with all 4 of my grandparents, his great grandparents. When we talk about them they're not just a picture or a visual, he knew them.
Sorry to hear of your loss. It is hard to lose a grandparent. I lost my last in 2011. Fortunately she was able to meet both of my kids.
That's what I very happy about, my son knew and had a great relationship with all 4 of my grandparents, his great grandparents. When we talk about them they're not just a picture or a visual, he knew them.
My kids only met my grandmother on my mother's side. My mom's dad dropped dead when my mom was 13 and my dad's parents were heavy smokers and both passed when I was a kid.
That's what I very happy about, my son knew and had a great relationship with all 4 of my grandparents, his great grandparents. When we talk about them they're not just a picture or a visual, he knew them.
My kids only met my grandmother on my mother's side. My mom's dad dropped dead when my mom was 13 and my dad's parents were heavy smokers and both passed when I was a kid.
Our family is young. My son will be 27 this year, I'll be 50 this year, my patents just hit their 70's, one of my grandfathers is 90 and one of my grandmothers just hit 93.
I ways felt fortunate that I had all four of my grandparents until I was 38. I had and have a great relationship with them all.
My kids only met my grandmother on my mother's side. My mom's dad dropped dead when my mom was 13 and my dad's parents were heavy smokers and both passed when I was a kid.
Our family is young. My son will be 27 this year, I'll be 50 this year, my patents just hit their 70's, one of my grandfathers is 90 and one of my grandmothers just hit 93.
I ways felt fortunate that I had all four of my grandparents until I was 38. I had and have a great relationship with them all.
How is the relationship between your son and your grandparents? Is the grandparent-grandchild relationship the same as great-grandparent-great-grandchild?
Our family is young. My son will be 27 this year, I'll be 50 this year, my patents just hit their 70's, one of my grandfathers is 90 and one of my grandmothers just hit 93.
I ways felt fortunate that I had all four of my grandparents until I was 38. I had and have a great relationship with them all.
How is the relationship between your son and your grandparents? Is the grandparent-grandchild relationship the same as great-grandparent-great-grandchild?
He's super close. We're a close family all around, still hug, kiss, say I love you, etc...
Post by Cityofchamps on May 23, 2022 15:54:51 GMT -8
Just an update that I just got back from his funeral today. He ended up passing on the 17th, the day after my dad had got back from visiting him in the hospital. I had driven down to my dad's sister's and they had his service at her church down there. Everyone still kinda reeling a bit since he was relatively healthy a little bit over a week before he passed. There was about 30-40 people there at the service, but it would have easily been over 100 if it wasn't on such short notice, he had that much of an impact on everyone's lives around him.
Learned a lot about my family history from my dad that I didn't know. Apparently we are related through my grandmother's side of the family from John Quiller Rowett, a businessman who made his fortune as a wine and spirits merchant, who also, back in 1921-22, financed the final Trans-Antarctic expedition of explorer Sir Ernest Shackleton and his ship Endurance, which was recently discovered back in March after it had crashed and sunk while surveying Elephant Island. Rowett ended up committing suicide at 48 years old after several failed business investments. The Rowett Institute of Nutrition and Health in Aberdeen, Scotland is named after him and he was a co-founder, providing the financing for the building site and investing 10,000 pounds into the construction of the initial building.
"Too often, we enjoy the comfort of opinion without the discomfort of thought." - JFK
"First Thoughts are the everyday thoughts. Everyone has those. Second Thoughts are the thoughts you think about the way you think. People who enjoy thinking have those. Third Thoughts are thoughts that watch the world and think all by themselves. They’re rare, and often troublesome."